I don’t have any support.
by Sally ~ February 15th, 2010. Filed under: creating a life you love, support.
This is continuing the conversation in the series “Ten Reasons NOT to have what you want”.
You feel like you have to do it alone and that no one understands what you want or even why.
It is hard to accomplish things by yourself. Why? Because it takes discipline and dedication. It takes hard work.
Sometimes you don’t feel like you are getting appreciation for a job well done. You may thrive on getting a pat on the back and recognition.
Often your own family or friends don’t really understand your dreams or why you want to do them.
In their eyes, they may be trying to protect you from getting hurt or disappointed, but instead make you feel like you aren’t good enough so don’t bother trying.
It’s easy to get swayed and distracted and pulled in a different direction when your dreams are fragile.
The solution is to find your own circle of support. If you can make it easier, why not?
It is easier when you make a commitment to show up to do your work. It is easier to have like minded people who can help you through your challenges and help you celebrate your successes.
The beauty of our interconnected world is that even if you live in the middle of nowhere, if you can find an internet or phone connection, you can find support.
Here are a few ideas:
Find a friend who is trying something of their own
Find a discussion group with an internet search
Take a class
Find a coach
Start a mastermind group
Find or start a meet-up group in your area
You don’t have to be alone. Support is just a click away.
