Inspiration for a joyful and creative life

This is a story of having fun with your creative project even when things are going wrong.  Really wrong.

I started cooking with my son, Parker, at a young age.  For his 18th birthday, (how did that happen so fast?), I asked if he would like me to make his cake or if he wanted to help.

Lucky for me he wanted to make it together.  He chose a Penguin cake when he saw the picture of these cute penguin cupcakes on the back of my Hello Cupcake book.

We wanted to make some changes to make them even better, or so we thought. We have a hard time following directions just as they are and like to add our own touches.

Instead of the canned frosting recommended to glue the doughnut hole head to the half mini donut and the cupcake body, we decided to use marshmallow crème.  Instead of the thinned and warmed frosting to dip the penguin, we wanted to use dark chocolate ganache.

Who knew that ganache does not stick to marshmallow crème?  After dipping the cupcakes, it was starting to crack like old, chipped paint.

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We made a mess!  We kept dipping in an attempt to cover the marshmallow and make a solid black head and body.  We were covered in chocolate.

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But we were laughing and having fun.  Sometimes when I’m making something and it’s not turning out, I get frustrated and mad but I loved that we were still having a good time with our ridiculous our lumps of cake.

I thought maybe if we left the chocolate ganache to set up a bit, we could try to cover things up.

The next day, we began again.  I thought we were going to have to change the theme of the cake to aliens have landed or the big blob.

We used the thickened ganache to repair the cracks and even things out a bit.

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We added the beaks which are starburst candy cut on the diagonal, wings from chocolate cookie wafers cut in half, and white bellies from sliced marshmallow ends.  The eyes were made from a dab of white frosting piped on with mini chocolate chips.

We perched them in black and white cupcake holders which help make them look a little neater.

Lo and behold, it was a miracle.  They started to look like penguins.  They weren’t perfect but they were kind of cute.  They each had their own personality.

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They also had a few balance issues from falling over before so we let them stay a bit tipsy.

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I even let one just go to sleep, lying on his back.  I added some starburst feet.

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Parker’s friends had already started to arrive for his party, so I finished things up by making an iceberg cut from the rest of the cake baked in a 13 x 9 pan.

I made what was supposed to be a quicker and more stable version of 7 minute boiled white icing.  It is basically a marshmallow type white icing.  It took way longer than 7 minutes and wouldn’t thicken up properly but it still tasted good.

So, going with the same attitude that it will taste good even if it doesn’t look good, I cut the cake at angles and stacked it up, spread some of the extra chocolate ganache on top and added the marshmallow icing.

The icing was more like a glaze but it smoothed out and was shiny, just like ice.  Good enough!

I perched our wonky penguins around the ice berg and added some gummy fish.  They looked like they had too much fish to eat, so I went with it.

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Considering all the problems, it came out pretty cute.  And it tasted good which is very important!

But the main thing I was most happy about was that we really did enjoy the process, despite things not working out as planned.  And the best part was I got to make a few more memories with my son.

Here is my son Parker (on the left) celebrating with his good friends

Do you always have more projects and ideas that you want to do than time to do them?

I know I do!  In my attempt to simplify things so that I can enjoy them more, I am experimenting with keeping a Project Wish List.

When I would see ALL my ideas as things I HAD to do, it was overwhelming.  When I look at it as a Wish list and a way to choose what I want most right now, it becomes empowering.

It is basically a way to capture the ideas of things I might want to do and to give me a way to choose.

Here is what I have right at the top to remind me to keep it simple!

You can pick ANYTHING you want!

You just can’t do it all at once.

Choose 3 projects to work on and only replace a project when one is finished or you feel it is not worth completing.

Release Resistance.   Let it be Easy and Enjoyable. 

My plan is to keep the number of projects down to a minimum so that I can finish them before I go on to the next one.

I am keeping a running list on a word document, and have a shortcut on my desktop.  I also have 3 file folders in my action files in the kitchen.  This way, I can get it out of my head and in a place for safe keeping.

I have it broken down into 3 areas – Business, Home, and Creative.

And for me, those categories do cross over because I might have a creative project like a piece of jewelry or art that will be sold through my business.

But just as a way to keep it easier to choose, I wanted a few categories.

Here is how I am using them.

Business – Any kind of marketing idea, anything to do with the website, blog, or accounting or any other business project.

Home – Any project that has to do with organizing or maintenance.

Creative – Any kind of creative project or idea, whether it is for business or just for me personally, that’s where it goes.  These are mainly things I want to make.

Periodically I will take the notes out the folders and add them to the computer file.

How do you keep track of all the things you want or need to do?

©Sally Evans Sunlight Through the Leaves

Each year I like to pick a theme for the year.  It helps me to focus on what I want and how I want to live.

I’ve been working on getting my life less complicated, less cluttered, and moving more toward spending my time in a way that feels fulfilling and enjoyable.

One of my big changes last year was to spend more time creating.  I am definitely moving in the right direction!

In order to spend more time enjoying making jewelry, art, projects for our home, and inspiring others to create, I have continued to work on ways to keep things more organizing.

My sister and I have been working together and experimenting with creating systems for work and home that simplify and make day to day tasks easier.

I look forward to tweaking and playing with that even more because I am really seeing a difference.

We both realized how creating limits has given us more freedom.

Examples of that include the number of projects I am working on at one time.

And while that may sound simple to some of you, believe me that has been a work in progress!

I just wrote a post about having a Fresh Start on my jewelry and art site.

I wanted to start the year but clearing my creative spaces which include my studio, the sewing room, and my office.  I include my office because that is where I write and it helps to not be surrounded by piles of things to do.

The idea is to continue to make choices that feel good and that allow me to simplify the day to day tasks and make things easy to maintain.

That allows me to enjoy having freedom to do more of what I want, whether that is to create jewelry, art, make a flower arrangement, play with my family and friends, or make some beautiful pillows for our bed.

And the most important part is practicing being in the moment and enjoying it, no matter what I am doing.

I think it is going to be a great year!

What is your theme for the year?  What do you want to practice?