Posts Tagged ‘goals’

Invest in Your Happiness

Monday, June 7th, 2010

I’ve been dealing with clutter and information overload this week.  I’ve written some articles which I’ll be sharing with you soon.

As I have been going through the piles of information, business products I’ve purchased, books with intriguing titles, etc. there is one thing that stands out.

Some of the information sits collecting dust and I’ve never even used it.  There are the things that lured me in with the promise of the magic bullet.

But the programs and information that I have actively participated in have been very valuable with things I refer back to again and again.

I consider those an investment in myself, in my growth, in my businesses, and in discovering better ways to enjoy life.

Let’s face it; we all spend time money on things that don’t add any value to our lives.

After you spend money on the necessities, there is a lot more room for making choices than you think.

When you invest in yourself, you’ll reap the long term rewards long after the time or money is spent.

Investing time and money in your potential and making decisions based on what is important to you, and what bring you happiness, not just for the moment but for the future is the best investment you’ll ever make.

Barbara Winter wrote that she often gets emails about how people are quick to say they can’t afford to do something that would help them to go in the direction of their dreams or just be a life affirming experience.

In her Feb 2010 blog post at http://www.joyfullyjobless.com, she writes about a self employed friend who needed extra cash that put an ad in Craigs list to pet sit and not long after earned over $1, 000.

“What successful goal setters know is that the process goes something like this: focus on a goal, brainstorm obvious and crazy ways to make it happen, start taking action.”

So don’t wait to invest in your happiness.  Get creative and figure out a way to make it happen.

P.S. If you are ready to spend some time and attention on what you really want and what makes you happy, contact me about the Success Circle Program…..it’s about to start  and I just have a couple spots left!

Your Journey of Discovery

Wednesday, May 19th, 2010

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Making your dreams come true and living your desired and inspired life is an ongoing journey of discovery.  And a process.

Don’t you sometimes wish you could just push a magic button and everything would be perfect – now?

But it really isn’t about achieving one goal or one moment that defines your happiness or your life.  It is about the journey of discovery and the adventures and opportunities along the way.

I have spent a lot of time resisting the fears,  risks and even some of the joy and excitement along the way.  I have spent a lot of time getting in my own way.

Realizing that all the stages, including  failing, trying again, re-evaluating, re-inventing and refining goals are part of the process of living my dreams allows me to see it differently.

Just like the creative process which has it’s moments of excitement and momentum along with lulls and incubation.  It helps to know there are a myriad of stages and the feelings that go with it that allow you to continue to grow.

Your journey is usually a series of spirals and rarely ever a straight line.

Even though it might be frustrating – isn’t it comforting to know it’s not black and white? There isn’t a check point at the end of the line where someone stamps your Dream Card- granted or denied.

And if you are discovering and appreciating the journey along the path of your dreams, you’ll expect twists and turns along the way.  You won’t give up so easily when you encounter them, and you may even come to regard them as opportunities to grow.

New Year, New Perspective

Tuesday, December 29th, 2009

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An Easier Way to Set Goals

As we enter a new year, in our area, the ground is covered with white, sparkling snow like a blank canvas, fresh and full of possibilities.

How are you starting off the new year? It can be exciting and overwhelming.

As you set goals, are you making a giant to do list that would be intimidating for someone running their own country?

Are you vowing to do better than last year? Or are you feeling bad that you haven’t made new promises yet that you’re afraid you won’t be able to keep?

What if one of your main aspirations this year could be to simply enjoy your life more?

The future is something which everyone reaches at the rate of sixty minutes an hour, whatever he does, whoever his is.” – C.S. Lewis

With a slight change of perspective, it is possible. Think about each area of your life such as relationships, finances, career or business, mind, body, spirit, fun and recreation. Try to write down at least one thing that would make it more enjoyable and more satisfying. How could you make it easier?

The best part is it could be something very simple. Here a just a few possibilities.

  • What if you devoted an hour or two a week to a dream or goal you’ve wanted to do for a long time but haven’t found a block of time to accomplish it?

  • What if you let go of the pressure of having a certain outcome or deadline?

  • What if you were trying to cut down on coffee or sodas and you add a glass of water in between each cup?

  • What if you got help from a friend on something you’ve been procrastinating and dreading? My sister and I did this with some of our clutter and it was a huge help!

  • What if you gave yourself mini rewards to recognize your efforts?

What if you got in the habit of asking yourself how you could make something more satisfying and easier before doing it? You may come up with some great answers and even better a habit of enjoying life more.

How can you make things a little easier this year?