Posts Tagged ‘Living Your Dream’

Inspiring Quote of the Month

Tuesday, October 26th, 2010

“It’s like driving a car at night. You never see further than your headlights, but you can make the whole trip that way.” – E.L Doctorow

So often it is easy to get caught up in the fact that you aren’t sure how you will accomplish what you want.  That can be enough to stop you from even trying.

What we forget is that no one really knows exactly how something is going to turn out.

This quote is a great reminder that you need to just start going in the direction you want.  You don’t need to see the whole way ahead before you can reach your destination or maybe even a better one.

Inspiring Quote of the Month

Wednesday, July 28th, 2010

“All gardeners live in beautiful places because they make them so.”

- Joeph Jourbert

This quote is a great reminder that we all have the choice to make our lives beautiful and that choice requires action.

You can start out with a tiny seed or idea and allow it to grow and blossom into something wonderful.

When you tend to your garden or your life and focus on making it beautiful, you will reap what you sow.

P.S. This picture was taken when we were at the Palace of Versailles outside of Paris, France a couple of years ago.

Make Room For Your Life

Tuesday, June 29th, 2010

What What to do with the Stuff You Decide To Keep

If you missed the 1st part of this, click here for Clearing Clutter to Make Room for Your Life.

How can I get what I need when I need it?
I realized that I do want and need some resource information to help myself and my clients but I don’t need to be “surrounded” by it as if I’m some kind of hostage.

I’m creating a resource section where I can access it when the need arises.  And I am letting the internet store some of the resources by using SpringPad.

This too can apply to supplies and other things you’ve collected that you want to keep but may not need to surround yourself with them.  Limits are important – see the next tip.

Set Limits
This is one I’ve had trouble with but I think it is the key to keeping order.

What else can you let go?  Are there things that have already served their purpose at the time but are no longer serving you?

Once you’ve have sorted, eliminated, gave away, the stuff you don’t need any more, you have to figure out how much space, time, etc. you are willing to devote to it.

I decided I don’t want to look out my window and see piles of notebooks tumbling over one another on the shelf / window seat that is designed for very narrow people.

Ironically, the notebooks are piled in front of my cool black and white sign that says Simplify.

You can define a shelf, drawer, piece of furniture, etc. for a particular type of item.

If you get something new to add and more than will fit there, the idea is you have to pare down and get rid of something in order to make it fit.

Whether it is beads, books, art supplies, sewing supplies, paper, or just things with potential, choosing to let something go sometimes presents a challenge.

But when I don’t make a decision, it catches up with me and I just end up taking more time and making more decisions later.

If you can get someone to help you, I highly recommend it.  Consider trading days with a friend where you each help each other.

Keep on Tweaking
Another thing I’ve found is that sometimes I have to keep refining and changing what is working.  It isn’t a one time deal.

When I have something new come into my life, whether it is a new project, a new way of thinking, or a reinvention of myself, it requires choosing what to keep and what to let go.

What has worked best is when I either already have a place for something or immediately make a home for something new.

Those “delayed” decisions or more appropriately delayed indecisions are what become these big time consuming projects later.

What would you rather have than Clutter?

More Time to Play
One of my intentions is to create more time to play.  Sometimes that play will be directly related to my work with writing, coaching, teaching, creating jewelry and art, and creating products.

Other times it will be just for the fun of creating…something wonderful for the house, a gift, something to wear, something to eat.

And sometimes it will be playing with family and friends, or out exploring the world.

Spending less time on maintaining stuff in my life means more time to create, more time to play.

More Peace of Mind
Another important intention is to clear the clutter to clear my head.

When things are in order, I feel my shoulders relax, I feel calmer, and I don’t feel as hurried.

I also feel more focused and can concentrate on what’s most important.

Ahhhh, I feel calmer, lighter, and more relaxed just thinking about it.

Do you have clutter you are holding on to that keeps you from living your life to the fullest?

What would you rather have more time, space, or energy for?